jom ramai-ramai ambil manfaat dpd program ini,
"berebut-rebutlah kamu dalam membuat amal kebajikan"
peduli nasib saudara2 kita di palestin dan seluruh dunia...
kerana bersatunya ummah, kembalilah kegemilangan khalifah
Posted by syifaa radzi at 9:49 AM
moga message dibawah ini dapat membuka mata hati 'anak-anak' sekalian untuk tidak hanya mengejar kejayaan material tetapi terlepas pandang kejayaan hakiki yang lebih membahagiakan...
This is a powerful message in our modern society. We seemed to have lost our bearing & our sense of direction.
One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.
He passed the first interview, the director who did the last interview, made the last decision.
The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.
The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".
The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.
The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.
This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.
After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.
Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"
The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'
The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."
The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.
The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my manager.
I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.
Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.
A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*
You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.
Posted by syifaa radzi at 9:13 PM
in this limited time, ana just nak share satu nasyid dari kumpulan native deen..
Posted by syifaa radzi at 10:28 AM
"pandai-pandai jaga tepi kain orang"
"anak sendiri tak pandai jaga"
mampos anak tu dok kisah apa"
itu antara kata-kata yang dihamburkan kepada ana sekeluarga untuk tempoh 2-3 hari yang lepas..ok biar ana cerita sikit apa yang berlaku to make it clear.
selepas berbulan-bulan(bertahun pun ada rasanya) kami sekeluarga selalu mendengar jiran(seorang kanak-kanak) dipukul (sangat dahsyat bunyinya) atas pelbagai kesalahan..sapa yang pukul?? IBU SAUDARA yang tanggung makan minumnya..budak tu baru je berumur 4-5tahun(x pasti), tak sepatutnya dia dipukul sebegitu dahsyat sampaikan orang-orang yang lalu depan rumah pun dengar bunyi pukulan tu..boleh bayangkan tak betapa sakitnya budak tu??kesian ana tengok budak tu..kurus je..waktu tu ana sekeluarga(termasuk TOK ana =p ) ambil keputusan, just wait and see..
kemuncaknya, minggu lepas bila kakak ana dengar sekali lagi budak tu kena balun(bahasa org perlis)..dengan sokongan daripada banyak pihak dan nak elak daripada perkara lagi buruk terjadi, ayah ana buat laporan kepada pusat kebajikan tentang kes budak tu..so, selepas pihak kebajikan datang ke rumah jiran dan buat apa yang patut, maka bermulalah 'perang sehala' (sebab mak cik tu sorang je yang 'berperang' dengan ana sekeluarga =p)..
kata-kata mak cik tu amat menyakitkan hati..setiap kali berjalan di depan rumah mak cik itu untuk ke rumah tok, akan ada perkataan yang tak sedap didengar keluar dari mulut mak cik tersebut..waktu ni memang banyak bersabar..terus teringat kisah Nabi Muhammad S.A.W dengan seorang wanita yang selalu menyusahkan perjalanan Nabi ke masjid setiap pagi dengan meletakkan duri, najis di atas jalan..tapi Nabi Muhammad tetap sabar, sikit pun tak marah malah Nabi menziarahi wanita tersebut bila menyedari satu pagi jalan ke masjid bersih sahaja..rupa-rupanya wanita tersebut sakit...indahnya peribadi Rasulallah itu telah mengISLAMkan wanita tersebut..
Allahuakbar!! Rasulallah dicaci, dihina malah pernah ada komplot untuk membunuh Nabi...tapi Baginda tetap maju dalam perjuangan dakwahnya..tak pernah luntur walau sesaat..ini tidak, baru sehari dua kena maki, dah tension,malas nak ambik tahu hal orang lain..terus bermasam muka dengan mak cik tersebut..adus!!baru aku tahu di mana letaknya tahap kesabaranku..Ya Allah, aku memohon Engkau tanamkanlah semangat juang RasulMu ke dalam diri hambumu ini ya Allah..Ameen..
sedikit perkongsian buat sahabat semua..moga ada ibrah yang dapat diambil daripada kisah ini..
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